some essential reminders..

Patience is our interest earned
Knowledge is our investment
Experience is our premium account

Most destructive habit - WORRY
Greatest joy - GIVING
Greatest loss - LOSS OF SELF-RESPECT
Most satisfying work - HELPING OTHERS
The ugliest personality trait - SELFISHNESS
The greatest shot in the arm - ENCOURAGEMENT
The greatest problem to overcome - FEAR
The most effective sleeping pill - PEACE OF MIND
The most crippling failure disease - EXCUSES
The most powerful force in life - LOVE
The worst thing to be without - HOPE
The deadliest weapon - THE TONGUE
The two most power-filled words - 'I CAN'
The most worthless-emotion - SELF-PITY
The most beautiful attire - SMILE!
The most contagious spirit - ENTHUSIASM
The most powerful channel of communication - PRAYER
The most important thing in life - GOD

Life ends; when you stop Dreaming,
Hope ends; when you stop Believing,
Love ends; when you stop Caring,
And Friendship ends; when you stop Sharing...!!!

1.根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁，如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？
you don't need to turn back and see who's scolding u, if a crazy dog bit u, would you bend down and bite it too?

2.忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。
envying other ppl brings no advantage to us n will not reduce other ppl's achievements.

3.你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。
you are freed from frustration when you put down sth. every types of pains make you maturer.


4.人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
human suffers because they are after the wrong thing.

5.得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。
we always thought someone is wonderful yet we cannot get him, that's because we don't really understand him and didn't spend enough time with him. one day when you really understands him, he might not be as good as u think.

6.不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。你要感谢告诉你缺点的人 。
don't intentionally go n guess what ppl r thinking because if you don't have d wisdom n experience to make the perfect decision, they usually go wrong. you have to thanks those who told you your weaknesses.

7.不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。
don't quarrel over small incidents n cause yourself to leave your relatives or good friends, don't forget what ppl did for u b4.

8.当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。
if you grab sth and doesn't want to let go, you can only have that particular thing. but if you r wiling to let go, you have the chance to choose others. if ppl r so persistent of what they think, then their level of wisdom will stop improving when it reaches a certain level.

9.你不要常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该要想，他对我这样已经很好了，这就是修行的功夫。
don't always think that u r d most unlucky person, you muz think that you r already better than many ppl.

10.世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。
the world doesn't belong to u therefore you don't have to give up. i use everything in d world but they don't belong to me.

11.学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
understanding n admiring your partner n not show ur caring arrogantly.

12.成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
matured ppl doesn't ask abt the past, clever ppl doesn't ask about now, stupid ppl doesn't ask abt future.

13.爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切，却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。
love can make someone forget everything, but it can also cause envy which leaves no space for forgiveness.

14.人总是珍惜未得到的，而遗忘了所拥有的。
ppl always treasure what they haven't get but forget what they already have.

15.如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊，可能一辈子找不到朋友。
if you wish to find a perfect friendship, you may not have any friend forever.

-> exclusively translated for lala
LEARN....... be freed.. and be loved!!!