嘴巴是別人的，人生是自己的

嘴巴是別人的，人生是自己的快樂，是純粹自然的產物， 是自己百分百支持自己、肯定自己的禮物。 沒有了自我，一切的快樂都是虛偽的假象。即是人家批評你、否定你、攻擊妳，也不代表你的自我受到否定， 唯一能否定你的人，只有你自己。

因此，那些經不起人家批評， 人家說一句，就要難過三十天，人家說兩句就要打人翻臉的人，事實上是對自己極端沒信心的表現。 當然了！ 這種容易跟人家「批評」起舞的人，注定要跟快樂說拜拜。

只要有人的地方就有是非； 只要人家有嘴巴，就會有意見和批評 想快樂的人，就不要太理別人的批評。再者，太在意別人想法的人，不僅不能快樂，也容易失去自己的特色和個性， 更沒辦法發揮自己的潛能。

總之，嘴巴是別人的，人生是自己的，有習慣性被人家嘴巴「虐待」的人，請用左腦右腦想一想： 『為什麼我要當人家嘴巴的奴隸？

TRANSLATION:
mouth belongs to others but life belongs to ourselves
happiness comes naturally from within
it's an exclusive present to completely support ourselves n give us our self-esteem
Without our inner-self, all the happiness are merely fake illusions
even though ppl criticize you, n are not being supportive of wat u do, or even attack u,
it doesn't mean you have to label urself faultily
coz the only person who can change ur impression towards urself is urself.

therefore, ppl who cannot stand criticism,
ppl who feel upset for 30 days jz because a word from others,
ppl who feel like beating up other ppl or turn their face off others jz because of some critics,
are actually demonstrating severe lack of confidence,
and of course,
ppl who are easily affected by what others say,
are destined to say goodbye to their happiness

whenever there are ppl, there are gossips,
as long as ppl have mouth, there are opinions n critics
if you want to be happy, don't care too much about what ppl are badmouthing abt u,
coz if we take that too seriously, we will not be happy and will eventually lose our unique characters n attitudes. at last, we won't be able to unleash our potentials, and ppl won't be able to see what we really are.

thus, mouth belongs to others but our life is still ours.
if we have the habit to be tortured by others' mouth,
please think with your left brain,
"y do we need to be enslaved by others' mouth?"