Friday, May 20, 2011
hmm
If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think you are living a life of meaninglessness - Adam Khoo
Thursday, May 19, 2011
no genius
theres no genius
theres only hardworking people perceived as one
maybe yes. but there's no pre-installed knowledge
maybe some people learn things faster
but a lazy genius will most probably lose out in the end
all in all, it still depends on the effort u're willing to put
a persistent hardworking shit eventually beats a sluggish genius
u get what u work for
lessons learnt the hard way slaps you harder and makes you wiser
theres no short cut
theres only hardworking people perceived as one
maybe yes. but there's no pre-installed knowledge
maybe some people learn things faster
but a lazy genius will most probably lose out in the end
all in all, it still depends on the effort u're willing to put
a persistent hardworking shit eventually beats a sluggish genius
u get what u work for
lessons learnt the hard way slaps you harder and makes you wiser
theres no short cut
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Friday, February 11, 2011
磨擦胜于沉默
沉默是金？
无声胜有声？
沉默表示很有礼让精神？
真的什么都没关系吗？
沉默是不服又不出声吧？
默默承受伟大吗?高尚吗?
为了避免磨擦，情愿什么都不说？
难道这样就能造就人吗？
难道肃静能缓和心中的不满？能解决事情？
还是负面情绪不断在无形中累积，隔膜不断增厚，然后一发不可收拾？
又或者是死憋着不发，却活在苦毒中，不能自拔？
有磨擦，才有理解的空间。
不表达，就不能怪别人不懂，因为不能期望人人都看得透你的心。
不要说什么没关系。
承受得了一时，承受不了一世。
总有崩溃的一天。
自己吞苦水，不但没人可怜，
到时搞到自己恼残，在哪里自怜自艾，人也懒得理你。
别让沉默摧毁你的独特的人格。
别承受了，表达吧！
共勉之
"The greatest of faults is to be conscious of none" - Thomas Carlyle
无声胜有声？
沉默表示很有礼让精神？
真的什么都没关系吗？
沉默是不服又不出声吧？
默默承受伟大吗?高尚吗?
为了避免磨擦，情愿什么都不说？
难道这样就能造就人吗？
难道肃静能缓和心中的不满？能解决事情？
还是负面情绪不断在无形中累积，隔膜不断增厚，然后一发不可收拾？
又或者是死憋着不发，却活在苦毒中，不能自拔？
有磨擦，才有理解的空间。
不表达，就不能怪别人不懂，因为不能期望人人都看得透你的心。
不要说什么没关系。
承受得了一时，承受不了一世。
总有崩溃的一天。
自己吞苦水，不但没人可怜，
到时搞到自己恼残，在哪里自怜自艾，人也懒得理你。
别让沉默摧毁你的独特的人格。
别承受了，表达吧！
共勉之
"The greatest of faults is to be conscious of none" - Thomas Carlyle
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
recollection
moderate stress is good but over stress can be devastating.
listen to your body else it will fail on you.
determination is a fucked up thing, in other words, it's forcing yourself to go against your heart and body and push yourself over a limit.
they say you never know your limit until you have really tried something freaking hard, but before that, how do you know whether you are able to bear with the limit? when you have reached a self-defined limit;since nobody knows their own limit until they have reached one and felt that what they are experiencing is truly one. so when you get there, how can you be sure that the damaging process towards this breakthrough is recoverable or reversible?
when you refuse to listen to your body to get a rest or relax when u're supposed to, your body eventually fails on you. and you need even more time to relax to compensate for the damage you have done to yourself compared to the time spent focusing on your studies/job/etc in an over-stressed mode, yet in the end you get so little out of it.
they say don't let your heart control you but in fact you should control it. this is a fucked up theory. when you believe you can control your heart, you try to force your body and mind into something more than what you can handle. it is ok in short term, but in long term, you have to bear the impacts it has on you on social, mental, health and every other aspects.
we grow up through different experiences, and it requires time. it can be accelerated, but watch out for the price to pay. throughout all these processes, remember to rest, everybody. keep the stress level moderate, stop whatever it is you're doing before stress builds up and destroys you,then perhaps you could perform even better when you resume it later.
there are more important things in life than what you're currently working on. find out what it is to you, and strive towards it. don't solely focus on your achievement, it drains away other aspects of your life. stop missing out the fun in life. life isn't so bad, it all depends on your priority. so don't live blindly.. but don't push yourself too much though.. enjoy life more.. cut some slack. don't be foolish.start listening to your heart.. then you will unleash what is most fulfilling to you within yourself.
listen to your body else it will fail on you.
determination is a fucked up thing, in other words, it's forcing yourself to go against your heart and body and push yourself over a limit.
they say you never know your limit until you have really tried something freaking hard, but before that, how do you know whether you are able to bear with the limit? when you have reached a self-defined limit;since nobody knows their own limit until they have reached one and felt that what they are experiencing is truly one. so when you get there, how can you be sure that the damaging process towards this breakthrough is recoverable or reversible?
when you refuse to listen to your body to get a rest or relax when u're supposed to, your body eventually fails on you. and you need even more time to relax to compensate for the damage you have done to yourself compared to the time spent focusing on your studies/job/etc in an over-stressed mode, yet in the end you get so little out of it.
they say don't let your heart control you but in fact you should control it. this is a fucked up theory. when you believe you can control your heart, you try to force your body and mind into something more than what you can handle. it is ok in short term, but in long term, you have to bear the impacts it has on you on social, mental, health and every other aspects.
we grow up through different experiences, and it requires time. it can be accelerated, but watch out for the price to pay. throughout all these processes, remember to rest, everybody. keep the stress level moderate, stop whatever it is you're doing before stress builds up and destroys you,then perhaps you could perform even better when you resume it later.
there are more important things in life than what you're currently working on. find out what it is to you, and strive towards it. don't solely focus on your achievement, it drains away other aspects of your life. stop missing out the fun in life. life isn't so bad, it all depends on your priority. so don't live blindly.. but don't push yourself too much though.. enjoy life more.. cut some slack. don't be foolish.start listening to your heart.. then you will unleash what is most fulfilling to you within yourself.
Monday, January 18, 2010
2010 resolutions
Here are my 2010 resolutions..
1.Learn and memorize all necessary guitar chords (hopefully will be able to play in church during singspiration next year). But first of all I should get a guitar ;p Guitar is much practical compared to violin. How often can I play violin?! and imagine myself strumming it while singing my fav songs.. hmm
2.Continue to practice violin and join SONS (State Symphony Orchestra of Sarawak)
3.Have faith and continue to strive in distance relationship.
4.Strive in studies
5.Make full use of my time but nevertheless don't stress myself out into an emo ass cuz that's just not gonna help.
6.Find more time to relax and spend more time for people and not object.
7.Brushing up social skills with all sorts of people by involving myself in as many activities as I could. Make myself more approachable & learn to speak out wisely.
8.Don't say 'No' easily especially when given a whole new task.Don't say 'I don't know how' because nobody knows how until they are keen to learn. Close your eyes and run into it, then see what you can learn from there. Believe me, you won't regret.
9.Spend money appropriately.
10.Make sure I achieve all of above.
What's yours..?
1.Learn and memorize all necessary guitar chords (hopefully will be able to play in church during singspiration next year). But first of all I should get a guitar ;p Guitar is much practical compared to violin. How often can I play violin?! and imagine myself strumming it while singing my fav songs.. hmm
2.Continue to practice violin and join SONS (State Symphony Orchestra of Sarawak)
3.Have faith and continue to strive in distance relationship.
4.Strive in studies
5.Make full use of my time but nevertheless don't stress myself out into an emo ass cuz that's just not gonna help.
6.Find more time to relax and spend more time for people and not object.
7.Brushing up social skills with all sorts of people by involving myself in as many activities as I could. Make myself more approachable & learn to speak out wisely.
8.Don't say 'No' easily especially when given a whole new task.Don't say 'I don't know how' because nobody knows how until they are keen to learn. Close your eyes and run into it, then see what you can learn from there. Believe me, you won't regret.
9.Spend money appropriately.
10.Make sure I achieve all of above.
What's yours..?
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
little update
hello peeps im back!
just got back from sibu after 2 weeks holiday break..
what did i do during the holiday break??
hmm... watch movies.. fishing..badminton.. hang out in cc.. lim teh.. wow so colourful RIGHT!@? what else can possibly be done?
let me summarize SIBU as follows..
Siak ta
I don't know what to do
Badminton
U are bored too i know
i'm taking maths 3c now and the final exam is in 6 weeks time. it's quite a tough subject so i hope i will put through then..
watched ninja assassin.. its not really bad i think although mr.hahn say its a great dissapointment to him. i think he just try to act his taste very high. he even say 2012 is suck. muhfuk!
watched feng yun 2.. too graphical.. but nevertheless acceptable.. 7/10
watched avatar.. 9/10 i will give it.. deduct 1 mark cox the avatar too ugly
that's all for now, bye!
anyway, i'm no longer single ;p
just got back from sibu after 2 weeks holiday break..
what did i do during the holiday break??
hmm... watch movies.. fishing..badminton.. hang out in cc.. lim teh.. wow so colourful RIGHT!@? what else can possibly be done?
let me summarize SIBU as follows..
Siak ta
I don't know what to do
Badminton
U are bored too i know
i'm taking maths 3c now and the final exam is in 6 weeks time. it's quite a tough subject so i hope i will put through then..
watched ninja assassin.. its not really bad i think although mr.hahn say its a great dissapointment to him. i think he just try to act his taste very high. he even say 2012 is suck. muhfuk!
watched feng yun 2.. too graphical.. but nevertheless acceptable.. 7/10
watched avatar.. 9/10 i will give it.. deduct 1 mark cox the avatar too ugly
that's all for now, bye!
anyway, i'm no longer single ;p
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